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            I deal with very sick people on a regular basis, which is one of the attributes of working in an intensive care unit.  This means that I also deal with families of those sick people. I am continually amazed and surprised by the variety of family dynamics I see in action when a family member is ill or injured. Family dynamics run the gamut from exceptionally loving to exceptionally dysfunctional.

            The crises that bring a patient to the intensive care will bring out the best or the worst in people.  Many family members will rise to the occasion and become strong for the sake of the patient or other family members. It is in situations such as these that people discover just how much strength they really possess.  It has been my experience that those who have a strong support system already in place, maybe a big family or a faith connection, have the best outlook on every situation. Even set backs are put in a positive light.  Maybe it is playing mind games with one’s self but coping mechanisms abound.  There are often circumstances that families don’t understand and the question why is forever present.  It is the support system and the beliefs of an individual that colors one’s perspective of every situation.

            When people allow themselves to place outcomes in God’s hands, whatever the outcomes may be, they not only get through, they grow.  Our ways are not God’s ways.  The ability to trust him no matter what the situation, is the ability to have the peace that passes all understanding.  Matthew 6:27 reminds us: “Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life[e]?”
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