Examples
I
keep reading that all the people we meet, we meet for a reason. To a certain
degree I agree with this, it validates the idea that our lives have meaning,
something we all look for in life. As a Christian, I quite frequently believe
the reason for meeting someone is so that I can be an example for others, which
isn’t a bad idea when it produces positive behaviors. However, it is not always
true; there are people I meet who teach me things, people who do not claim Christianity
can be placed in my path to teach me and not just as a bad example. I know many
people who do very admirable things and behave in upstanding ways that serve
others even without proclaiming Christ.
In
my youth, I was taught that non-believers cannot do good things because good
things are the work of the Spirit. This puzzled me a lot. I have met
non-believers who do fabulous things and Christians who behave very poorly and
vice versa. It occurs to me that God works through everyone, believer or not.
Just because someone doesn’t admit that God is real doesn’t mean that God doesn’t
move in her life. God is not limited by human beings.
Living
our Christianity out loud is a wonderful goal. The fly in the ointment happens
when we get so busy living out loud that we drown out what we can learn from
others. We cannot be so determined to be right that we miss the value of other
human beings and the lessons they can share with us. Christians are often
accused of being closed minded; yes, we have a narrow path to walk but that
does not mean we should be deaf, we can have discussions. Allow the fruits of
the Spirit blossom in you; love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness and
faithfulness. Demonstrating those fruits is what will draw people to want to
learn from us.
Let that other person tell you why they believe what they do and then explain why you believe what you do, with love and respect.
1 Peter 3:15 “But in your hearts revere
Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you
to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and
respect.”
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